How to get your husband’s love back?

Hello everyone

I want to share my story about how I got my husband back after he left me for another woman.

My name is Maria. I am 35 years old and my son is two-and-a-half. A year ago, after nine years together, my husband changed my world and threw me into a dark place; he suddenly left me.

It began when I noticed he started behaving a bit strangely. I couldn’t really put my finger on it, but I felt uneasy and that something was different, something was wrong. He started staying late at work for meetings, more and more often, during which time he would put his phone on silent mode. He also started actively working out in the gym which he hadn’t been doing regularly.

I needed to understand what was happening, what had changed, so I tried to talk to him, get his input, get some answers. He denied anything was wrong, said nothing had changed and that I was imagining things.

But, one day, everything really did change. She called his phone; the woman he had been seeing. His phone rang, and I answered it, why wouldn’t I? I was his wife. She asked to talk to him. I said that he had already gone to bed (he was genuinely asleep). Then, my world collapsed when this complete stranger screamed at me, “Ugly bitch! If you don’t call him now, I will break your legs! We are in love, we are going to live together, he has wanted a divorce for a long time!”

I hung up. I was shaking uncontrollably and in complete shock. It was a bolt from the blue. I idolized my husband, I loved him so much, I had thought, ‘anybody else could do it, but not him, never.’

It’s scary to remember that moment. I don’t know how long it took me to take a breath, to breathe again – minutes, hours, days – I don’t know how I crawled through that night. I felt my life had ended.

After I had calmed down a little, I went and woke him up, told him what had happened and said, as carefully as I could, that we were getting divorced.

He looked panicky and said, “Don’t be in a rush, this is a lie. She is lying; we don’t have a relationship.” I desperately wanted to believe him, and at first I fell for it. Everything carried on as it had been, he disappeared, did not pick up his phone. I tolerated it for a week, then I said I was packing my things and leaving to visit my mum, give us both some time to think.’ After a couple of days, I was on my way to my mums on a bus after work and, oh God, I saw them together in our car, smiling. And that was it. I was overwhelmed. I was shaking again, and knew it was real.

Fast forward through a month of conversations, reproaches, crying, screaming, I wanted him to change, but he was “clean,” and, apparently, I was the one overthinking and dramatizing, imagining. But, slowly, I found more and more evidence that she had been telling the truth. There was horrible pain, everyone was in a lot of stress.

Basically, he had promised to think about things, then the next day he said… IT’S OVER!!! He didn’t love me; he didn’t want me. Our relationship had turned to ice. But I didn’t believe him, he did love me, I know he did, we had been through so much together… could this be real?

I tried persuading him, I suggested visiting a psychologist. I said I loved only him, and I didn’t want anyone else. I didn’t want our son to be brought up by some other man who wasn’t his father. I said we had something to fight for – love, that we could carry through all these years, we really had a strong and caring relationship, to everyone we were the perfect family. But, it turned out that I had lived all those years in a bubble.

Nothing worked. It was as if he didn’t hear a thing. He packed his things and left, and we filed for divorce. All of this happened insanely quickly. It was just one and a half months from me finding out to our complete marriage breakdown.

I discovered that he had taken her to see his parents, moved into her place. People told me he had proposed to her and was going to buy a new flat. I was slowly going crazy; I felt like I was in hell. I couldn’t control my emotions, I fell sick, my body refused to work and I thought my heart would jump out of my chest. I could barely breathe, I wasn’t eating, I didn’t want anything except to cry.

I cried so much, one day there were no tears left. Basically, I had gone crazy with grief. I understood that this wasn’t good, this was not a way to live. I understood that I couldn’t tolerate it much longer. Nothing helped, neither work nor distractions. There were many sleepless nights and when I finally fell asleep, on waking again I was full of sorrow that it was all real. I lost eight kilos in a short time; the world I had foolishly believed in had disappeared.

I kept thinking, “What’s next? How should I act around him? How could I let him know that I still loved him so much, although I had tried everything to make him understand?”

Everyone around me encouraged me to exact some revenge, do something horrible to them both. I had called her, sworn at her, and threatened her. I fought with him over the phone, crying, begging him to come back, saying that no one would love him more than I did. But everything was getting worse and worse. All my friends and my mother said I should tear her hair out, that she wasn’t playing by the rules.  Even though she was six years younger than me, only 29, underneath the grief and agony I was amazed at her resourcefulness and knowledge of how to win a guy over.

I started going through tons of “how to get your husband back” forums but wasn’t able to find anything useful. The general advice seemed to be, “Take care of yourself, continue living, forget about it, raise your kid, stop suffering, don’t dwell on it, ignore them and move on.”

But many of the people on there hadn’t been through something quite like my experience, and the advice they gave just did not help. I didn’t want to do anything, I just wanted one thing, that he would be CLOSE to me again. I called him almost every day, asking him to come home. He said don’t bother, it’s over.

But he missed his son. He would visit sometimes, bringing him snacks and toys. Basically, I just couldn’t let it go. He came to see his child and my heart was torn apart; I want to hug and kiss him so badly. I had tried to approach him physically, but he stood there as if frozen; he wouldn’t move and after I expressed my feelings yet again he pulled away even further.

I was so crazy with grief and loss that I even considered finding someone to put a love spell on him. But even if they worked, what would be the point? Would I like feeling that he loved me not from the bottom of his heart but because he was under a spell? Could you call that happiness? I was losing my mind.

He had been the closest person to me, someone I trusted with my life, to the ends of the earth, but he had betrayed me – that was the scariest thing. I became totally confused, I couldn’t understand anything.

And then, out of the darkness, I stumbled upon the website of someone who helped people to bring back their loved ones. His name is Alex Bert. He has created a personal method based on his own life experience. I wrote to him and asked him to help me figure things out, help me from a man’s viewpoint to tell me what I was doing wrong.

After a conversation with him, I finally understood that I didn’t need to beg him to come back; begging is the last thing one should do. I realized why it wasn’t working, and he explained what the right moves were that I needed to make instead of what I was doing to make everything go my way; to get him back.

I stopped bothering my husband; it didn’t gain anything. Instead, I started following the method that I had been given by Alex. And, guess what? A month after I had changed my approach, my husband started looking for ways to talk to me, and after two, he came crawling back with deep apologies and the bitch was thrown out of the new flat.

His first words when he returned was that he hadn’t understood how good I was, how honest and human. Luckily, the divorce process wasn’t yet finalized.

My happiness was complete, and it now knows no bounds. I am truly, deeply, honestly happy and have everything I have ever wanted. we have been living together for a year now, since he came back.

I wrote this story out of immense gratitude, and you can see it as a review on Alex Bert’s website. Sometimes, I return to the forums where I had once been looking for an answer – what to do if my husband your husband leaves you … I wrote there that you should never give up. You need to claim what is yours.

I have recommended that people contact Alex, and a couple of girls have messaged me that each has seen progress and had some had amazing results, that their husband had returned to the family.

I am certain of one thing; the method works.

The approach is based on playing on men’s instincts and on the knowledge of natures’ laws – knowing why husbands really leave, and why they come back. Alex has huge experience in bringing back loved ones and reconciling families. He has been successfully reuniting people for over nine years.

He himself once went through the agony of a break-up and he knows what he is talking about. He is the author of his own method with a step-by-step FORMULA that leads to positive results; the return of love. The method is ideal for any woman; a woman just like me, a woman just like you.

If you are seriously determined; if you don’t want to lose your precious time fighting, or lose your man forever, then know this is the quickest and most secure way to bring your husband back to the family.

Follow this method and he will want to come back ON HIS OWN!

And finally, this is what you can do right now: Watch a free video of Alex talking about what you must and must not do to bring your husband back.

After watching this you will immediately feel better and calmer, and you will get the answer about what to do next.

Good luck, girls! Maria.